Sunday, February 5, 2012

This Week in Our Lives...Ok, it's 2 weeks - Jan. 23rd - Feb 5th


On January 24 Ceithlinn and her friend, Elaina Robison, performed in Bonney Lake Elementary's Extravaganza! This was Ceithlinn second year participating. The girls sang "Somebody Come and Play" from Sesame Street, and were accompanied by Josh. At the tryouts when the girls were asked why the chose this song they both answered, "We thought it was age-appropriate." The girls did a great job! I will see if I can get the video to upload. If not, check on Facebook, hopefully I can get it there. I wasn't able to get photos and the video is too fuzzy to make good pictures.

As an incentive for the family to finish our chores each week we have a reward. To earn the reward chores are to be completed by Saturday afternoon. The first three Saturdays of the month our reward is something easily done at home such as a movie night with popcorn, playing board or card games, playing the Nintendo, making cookies, etc. If we earn the weekly reward three weeks in a row, then we earn the "Big Reward." This is something that we usually spend money on and get out of the house either as a family or with friends. Rewards have been bowling with friends, going to the $2 movie and buying concession, etc. Our "Big Reward" on January 28th was to go to the Woodland Park Zoo in Seattle. It is absolutely AMAZING how much they packed into such a small space in the middle of the city. We asked the kids what animals they wanted to see. This was our second time every going to WPZ. Matthew said he wanted to see the Komodo dragons and Ceithlinn said she wanted to see the gorillas.

We arrived at the zoo at the South Entrance. The first thing that we saw was a replica of an African village. Seeing the huts made me even more grateful for how truly blessed we are here with our homes, indoor plumbing and electricity. The kids climbed in a little hut, we think it may have been like a chicken coup or something. Ceithlinn enjoyed playing the big drums and dancing. We then went on to see hippos, giraffes, lions and other Savanna animals.

 

At lunch time we stopped the little picnic area and ate our sandwiches. When we go to the zoo the kids like to use our animal cookie cutters to make fun peanut butter and honey sandwiches. This was something I started when Ceithlinn was preschool aged. It became an unintentional, fun tradition. Those are some of the best traditions, don't you think? Anyway, this time we brought a flamingo, a sheep, a squirrel and a hippo. The other three had been pretty well devoured by the time I got my flamingo out.

After lunch we were on our way to the Komodo dragons when Matthew spontaneously put his arm around Ceithlinn. I missed the original shot, and he was gracious enough to do it again for the photo. I just love when they spontaneously hug, kiss or say I love you. It warms this mama heart of mine. I have said it before, I will say it again. We are truly blessed to have the kids we do.

On to the Komodos... one was sleeping with its back to us and the other was sitting up next to a window with lots of condensation. Those picture didn't turn out so well. You get to see Matthew by the sign, doesn't he look so happy, and the kids playing on the Komodo dragon statue. They tried sliding down the tongue. It didn't work so well, but they had fun trying anyway.












While at the zoo we had the fantastic opportunity to feed the penguins and the budgie birds. The penguins were fun because they would sort of jump to get the fish. This was a first for all of us. The angle of that I had to shoot from wasn't great so you get to see Matthew's leg, Ceithlinn picking up the little fish to feed the penguins... very proud of her for that. She doesn't usually like trying new things... and Josh feeding the penguins. The budgies had just been startled before we came in so it took patience to get them to eat the seed sticks. It helped that Josh is tall and could coax them down. This was a first for Ceithlinn and Josh, Matthew fed the budgies at his field trip last year to the Point Defiance Zoo and Aquarium in Tacoma. I forgot warn Ceithlinn that the budgie would land on the stick to eat. The first budgie that landed knocked the stick out of her hand and was a bit startled. Ceithlinn then held the stick with both hands and really enjoyed the experience.

Eventually we made it to the gorillas. The littlest one was quite the entertainer. He licked the glass and picked on his sibling. He would bang on his chest and dart after his sibling. They would wrestle and then move away from each other. It was interesting to watch the mother gorilla. She reminded me of myself when my kids are rough-housing. She pretty much ignored them until it got started to get to rough. At one point she shooed the bigger gorilla away. Of course, the younger one egged him on again. So, mom picked at her berries and would occasionally look up to make sure things didn't get out of hand. It was fun to watch and laugh. The kids still talk about that gorilla.

We definitely want to go back for another big reward, perhaps when it is a bit warmer. Below are pictures of us with the kids on a couple of statues they liked... see I really was there.











Those are the big highlights from the last couple of weeks. I continue to go to college. I am in my second to last quarter at Pierce College. We are all looking forward to graduation in June. Josh continues to build his private practice. The kids are doing well in school. Matthew goes to Occupational Therapy (OT) at Good Samaritan Children's Therapy Unit (CTU) on Friday and just start Speech Therapy. Both of these focus on behavior modification and social skills. He really enjoys going. Oh, on that note... Matthew earned therapy pool time.

In November or December Matthew had a couple weeks at OT that ended with a massive fit, meltdown. After the second one his therapist, Brandi, saw that he really like looking at the therapy pool through the big window. To get to the pool you have to go through a couple of access only doors. She came up with a fantastic reward. If Matthew could come to therapy and listen well, follow direction and not have a fit for three weeks he would get pool time on the fourth week. At the end of each week he could put a sticker on a chart so he could see his progress. It worked pretty well. The first two weeks went off without a hitch, week three... not so great, massive meltdown at the end, but he was great the fourth week and earned that third sticker. Well, we ended up waiting a few more weeks before we could get into the pool. The first Friday Brandi was out of town, the next Friday we had our ice storm and CTU was closed, the third Friday Matthew and Ceithlinn got in their suits and Brandi came in and said that something really stinky was coming through the vent system in the pool room and she was sick to her stomach and had a headache. I thought, are you kidding me?! We were able to explain to Matthew our safety concerns (health concerns), Brandi let him smell it for a moment and he was fine with waiting another week. So proud of him for making that adjustment. I thought there might be some sort of fit, but he pleasantly surprised us. Both Brandi and I thanked him and complimented him a few times on making the shift in plans. Anyway, Matthew was able to get into the pool and Friday, the 3rd, and had a ball! He is really cute when he goes under the water. He will plug his ears with thumbs and his nose with his fingers to prevent water from going in either. It makes me laugh. This is the resolute of having ear tubes until he was 4 I think.

One last thing... Matthew woke up on Friday and came in with a big smile and said, "Mom, I had a good dream last night." "You did? Wanna tell me about it?" Now with an even bigger grin, "I got to ride a nice T-Rex!" "Wow, were you way up high on this T-Rex?" "No, it was a little one. It brought me to meat!" Then he looked off with a dreamy smile. He must have been remembering what that dream was all about. Later I found out the T-Rex was orange. Man, I love this kid!

Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Matthew's Take on the Power Outage

I found this  on a piece of paper in Matthew's backpack. I think it was a writing exercise for school. He says,
  • “On the first day we played in the soft snow.”
  • “We had a snowball fight.”
  • “On the first day we lit one hundred thousand candles.” (I think it was 3, but 3 isn’t as impressive as 100,000 is it?)
  • “We told knock-knock jokes.” (For about an hour one night – most of Matthew’s went something like this:
     “Knock, knock.”
     “Who’s there?”
     “Giant, giant, ginormous, ginormous, ginormous, ginormous pineapple.”
     “Giant, giant, ginormous, ginormous, ginormous, ginormous pineapple who?”
     “I will huff, and I will puff and squash your house down!” (Now you must laugh hysterically…   :o) We love this boy!)

Sunday, January 22, 2012

What's New With You -- January 1 - 22, 2012

The thought on the 8th was that each Sunday I would update our blog with the week’s happenings. That way I don’t fall too far behind. The plan is a good one as long as something big doesn’t come up, like going out of town. This might be a little long, but hopefully you will enjoy it anyway.

Piano Lessons
January 3, 2012

Ceithlinn asked Josh if he would please teach her to play the piano. He explained that she would need to practice every day for 15 minutes (this time will get longer as she gets more experienced). She said she could commit to that. So, the first lesson taught about how the piano works, counting, proper posture and technique, and her first song to practice.



Ceithlinn has been diligent in practicing and learning what she can. I haven’t had to remind her to practice. In fact, on Friday she will come straight home from school and practice so she can have it done before we take Matthew to Occupational Therapy. She was rewarded today, January 22, 2012, for her diligence when she was able to play her first duet with Josh and get her theory book. She was thrilled about the duet, not so much about a 2nd book. She is doing really well, as we knew she would. I will try to put the video of the duet on the blog. We’ll see how that goes.


Winter Quarter Begins
January 9, 2012

I am enrolled at Pierce College, earning my Associate in Business degree. I will graduate in June. We are very excited for this. With this degree I plan on starting my own dance studio, “Celtic Flare.” I really miss Irish and Scottish dancing. Pierce County doesn’t have anything to offer really in the way of Celtic dancing. I decided it was time that was changed. I am excited and nervous about the possibilities that lie before us. Luckily, I have a very supportive husband and children. This will be GREAT!

This quarter I have a morning class at the college daily, an evening class twice a week and an online class. This means that I spend more time commuting than before because we have one car. So, each morning after the kids are off to school I bring Josh to work, then I get to school myself. Then we pick him up at the end of his work day.

Grandma Bailey Passed Away
January 11, 2012

The evening of the 11th I felt very strongly that we needed to speak with Josh’s family. I called him to let him know we were on our way. I asked if he would please call his dad. When Josh got in the car he looked tired. I figured it was because it had been an 11 hour work day. He said that he spoke with his dad. Dad said he was about to call us to let us know that his mom, Dorene Lewis Bailey, had passed away that morning.

We are very blessed to know Grandma Bailey. She is full of love and laughter. She has a deep love for our Savior, Jesus Christ and a strong testimony of the gospel of Jesus Christ. She loves her family more than I think we truly understand. She and Grandpa Ray are a shining example of what becoming one in marriage is about. They were married for almost 32 years. They loved each other deeply. They still flirted, hugged and kissed unashamed in front of us. It really was wonderful. Grandma has a great sense of humor and can be quite mischievous. She will be missed. We are grateful for the knowledge we have that we will see her again.
To learn more about Grandma Bailey see her obituary:
http://www.manningwheatleyfuneralchapel.com/fh/obituaries/obituary.cfm?o_id=1365033&fh_id=13370

Ceithlinn’s Viking SAIL Award
January 13, 2012

Each day at Bonney Lake Elementary the students and teachers meet in the gym for morning announcements and the Pledge. Other awards and recognitions are given to the students at this time as well. They have “I Can” awards which are given out daily to students that have done something positive around the school. The students are given a slip of paper with their names on it and what they did such as: “I picked up the balls at recess” or “I helped a friend to the nurse’s office.” These slip are put in a bucket or something and drawn at random. When a student is called up they then get to pick a prize from the principal’s wagon of goodies.

Once a quarter they have Viking SAIL awards. These are medals that say “Leadership” on them.

SAIL stands for:

        Safe with bodies and feelings
        Achieving excellence
        Include everyone
        Leadership - making responsible choice

Each student is called to the front of the assembly and the principal reads why the teacher has nominated this student for a Vikings SAIL award. Ceithlinn was given one of these awards. I wasn’t able to make the assembly due to my school schedule, but Josh was able to go and recorded it for me. Following is a transcript of what happened: Mrs. Miller, the principal says, “From Mrs. Klockeman’s classroom we have Ceithlinn. Ceithlinn, you are being honored for being Safe with bodies and feelings. Mrs. Klockeman says that ‘Ceithlinn is a very kind student. She always has a smile on her face. Ceithlinn is friendly, polite and a great friend to others. Ceithlinn goes out of her way to help everyone in the classroom. If I ever need a volunteer to help, it’s Ceithlinn, even if it means giving up some recess time.’ Ceithlinn, thank you for being that kind of a leader in our school.”

We were so completely thrilled for her. She really is an amazing young lady! We are so very blessed to have her as our daughter.


Our Trip to Idaho
January 14-18, 2012

We drove into Pocatello, Idaho on Saturday, 14th, for funeral services on Monday, 16th. We were glad we left when we did. By the time we checked into our hotel that night friends were reporting that it was snowing in Washington. The mountain passes would have been hard to get through the follow day.

We were able to spend some fun time with Josh’s family on Sunday, 15th swimming, talking and eating… not all at the same time, of course. I forgot to use my camera so don’t have visual evidence of this. Hopefully, Jared will send us copies of some of the photos he took of 5 of the 6 grandkids swimming in the hotel pool. Baby Emily enjoyed being held by her mom or grandma. Swimming was especially fun for Ceithlinn because she figured out how to swim on her own. By the time we were coming home she became quite the mermaid swimming from one side of the pool to other and swimming under water. She also figured out how to float. It was great to see Josh teach her and for her figure it out. She has such a great sense of accomplishment.

The 16th, we went into Lava Hot Springs for funeral services. It was nice to see the cousins, aunts, uncles and grandparents again. It was good to hear how loved Grandma is and what a wonderful legacy she left. Before we left for the cemetery we took a moment to get a picture of Josh’s dad by the plaque that says he earned his Eagle Scout rank back in 1967. That was pretty neat. Grandma was interred in Dingle, ID, which was very COLD and WINDY. Josh was able to serve as a pall bearer. That was an honor for him to be able to serve his grandparents that way, and represent the David Gates Clan.

After the cemetery we took the opportunity to visit with Grandpa Gates and Dorothy in Lava. It was good to see them. I think the last time we visited Ceithlinn was a baby. It was good to catch up. Matthew fell in love with all their cats, especially Alaska and Little Bit, who isn’t little at all.
With Alaska

With Little Bit



With Great Grandpa Gates and Dorothy












SISTERS!!!
The 17th, Shera and Megan made the 3-hour drive from Lehi, UT to eat breakfast and spend a little time with us. At breakfast Matthew created a new invention called, “Orange-Apple Juice.” The recipe is simple. Pour hotel orange juice into a cup until you think you have enough. Then pour hotel apple juice in that same cup. Grab a straw to stir. Once stirred put on a lid and enjoy. Matthew was so very pleased with his “new invention.” The fantastic employee overseeing breakfast even let Matthew make her some after he explained how it was made step-by-step. You should try it, it isn’t too bad especially if you have more orange than apple juice.

After visit and breakfast we began our journey back to Washington. The goal was to make the drive in one day. It only took us 12 ½ hours to get to Pocatello. Well, Mother Nature had other plans. We ended up getting a hotel in LeGrande, Oregon about half way home because the road were getting icy, it was getting darker and snow was really starting to fall. We are glad we choose to stop over because the next day we ended up putting chains on the tires and driving from LeGrande to Pendleton very slowly. We were grateful we followed the prompting to purchase chains and bring extra food, water and clothes. After Pendleton things cleared up, and we proceeded through Oregon. There is a point the journey were you have a choice to either follow 84 into Washington over Snoqualmie Pass and Tiger Summit or stay on 82 and go into Portland. We decided to try 84 because the other way adds a few hours. We got about 30 miles from the interchange and decided it would be better to turn around and take 82. We would have used our chains for the majority of the trip if we continued. Chains are not meant to be used for more than 30 miles, I think it is. So, we turned around, went back to Oregon and had wet roads until we hit Olympia, Washington where it was frozen slush on the roads. This made for a nice washboard effect. Needless to say, we were happy when we pulled in. Total time driving home from Pocatello: 23 ½ hours.

Our car in the morning in Le Grande

Josh getting chains on the car

Matthew's foot print. The snow was up to the middle of his calf.




Washington Winter Storm
January 19-20, 2012

The fun continued the next day when we woke up to no power and lots of iced over slush to shovel out of the driveway and walkways so our tenants would be safe. We had a nice ice storm that took out power, trees and carports (luckily, not on our property). The kids were a great help in our “plowing” efforts as they call it. They are good “plowers”. When all was said and done we were without power for about 40 hours, but managed to make it through pretty okay. We are grateful we have food storage and warm blanket.
Matthew getting ready to "plow"
 
Josh heading to the snow



Matthew's ice hat




Ceithlinn "plowing"
Frozen Rhododendron

Ice on garbage fence









I think that about brings you up to speed with what is going on in our lives. Next week the post won’t be so long. I think I may just do a bullet point of what happened in our lives in 2011 just so I know it is recorded. Until next week….

(Hopefully, I can better figure out how to attach the photos)




Sunday, January 8, 2012

A New Year, A Renewed Commitment

I missed a whole year on our blog and have lost some really fantastic family adventures. I am not going to update you on everything. That would make this a novel of unusal size that no one would read. Let me just say, I have a new plan for keeping up this blog. I have set time aside in the week and on Sunday to update it. I will be better because the few of you that read this deserve to know what is happening with our family... and, well, let's face it, this is a great way to keep a personal family history. Here's to a new year, a renewed beginning and better blogging.

Sunday, November 28, 2010

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Ceithlinn's School Program

Each year the music teacher, Mrs. Selle, puts together musical programs for the kids to participate in as a grade. This year the theme was outer space! All the 2nd grade learned some fun song about the solar system and planets. They started out singing, 'Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star" softly. Then a voice over says something like Houston we need to launch. All the kids counted backwards from 10 and then sing a lively song called "Blast Off!" This was her favorite song.

Ceithlinn was also given a speaking part, which she always loves. I was really impressed at how fast she memorized her lines, too. She was assigned the part while she was out recovering from surgery so, only had a few days to get her lines down.

Her lines were, "Why do we study the planets? Why do you look to space?" Then another student says something like If we live on such a beautiful planet, why do we look to another place? Then other students gave quotes from famous people about discovery and exploring. Then Ceithlinn said, "We study space to make a better world." The other student says, "We want to know more." Then Ceithlinn, "We want to understand!" Sally Ride is quoted, "Reach for the stars!" Then everyone says, "REACH FOR THE STARS!" Then another song.

All in all the program was good. Ceithlinn really loved learning the song and the actions that when with them. She really does like performing and doesn't ever seem to get stage fright, which is good. I love that she is so confident and comfortable with herself. I hope that it continues as she gets older.

( Pictures below: Dressed up and ready to go and Doing the actions to one of the songs.)

















Sweetest Husband... EVER!!

Yesterday was the 10th anniversary of our engagement. I mentioned this to Josh in the morning at breakfast time and wished him a happy anniversary. Well, last night when Josh got home from a LONG day at work (he was gone almost 12 hours) he had a surprise for me. He walked in the door with a dozen red roses, got down on one knee and asked if I would marry him. I responded the same way I did 10 years ago, "Of course!" Then added, "Only for the next 10 years, after that you better propose again." *wink, wink*

This time there were more tears...tears of gratitude and joy. While I was kissing Josh, Ceithlinn said, "Oh, how romantic," wistfully.

I love that we can show our kids this type of love. This is real love, not a fairy tale love or strange relationship love. THIS is true, deep, heart to heart, soul to soul, love you for you are and what you will become come, unifying love. This is one of the greatest gifts we will be able to give our children.

I am so very grateful for my sweetheart. He truly is the perfect match for me. He strengthens my weaknesses, supports me in everything I do and go through, he is me best friend and I can say I am I better person because he is in my life. I am a very blessed woman to have such a husband.

Here's to another 10 years... and another 10 after that... and another 10 after that... and another 10 after that... well, you get the picture, until forever and eternity.